Hi, I’m Kochava.

I’m a Jewish convert, a lawyer, a parent, a consultant and coach, and the voice behind Building a Jewish Life.
I created this space because conversion candidates deserve support that’s clear, honest, and rooted in real-life experience. I know how confusing and painful the process can be—because I lived it. My own conversion journey was filled with unnecessary delays, bullying, and deeply painful experiences. I also know what it feels like to come out the other side stronger, more grounded, and with a deep commitment to helping others navigate this process with as little stress, chaos, and confusion as possible.
Today, I work with conversion candidates who want practical guidance, honest answers, and real support. Whether you’re just starting your journey or trying to make it to the finish line, I offer one-on-one coaching, community support circles, and a growing library of resources designed to help you complete your conversion process as efficiently and sustainably as possible.
I’m also neurodiversity-positive, accommodations-aware, and fiercely committed to helping you build a Jewish life that works for you.
This isn’t about being perfect or pleasing everyone. It’s about being real, informed, and supported—and having someone in your corner who gets it.
I’m so glad you’re here.