Author name: Kochava Yocheved

Welcome! My name is Kochava, and I'm not crazy. Well, maybe I *am* crazy, but not for converting to Judaism. I'm a Southerner, writer, lawyer, teacher, parent, homeschooler, activist, nerd, and brand-new YouTuber. You name it, I'm curious about it.

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The Footnote That Changed My Life

The first thing that ever felt holy to me wasn’t a ritual or a rabbi – it was a footnote.If you’ve ever felt like religion was a perfection contest you were destined to fail, this story might change that. It’s about the moment I realized Judaism didn’t need me to be flawless – just honest, […]

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The text "I *DREAD* Passover every year" over a picture of the author holding a box of shmurah matzah. She is giving a thumbs down with a grossed-out face.

When Jewish Practice Just… Sucks.

Jewish practice isn’t all rainbows and unicorns. Sometimes? It just plain sucks.And if you’re converting to Judaism, or navigating Jewish life with a disability or neurodivergence, that truth matters more than ever. Take Passover, for example. I’m autistic. None of my safe foods are kosher for Pesach, matzah destroys my stomach, and by day four

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Dirt Isn’t Chametz.

Overwhelmed by Pesach prep? You’re not alone – but let’s get one thing straight: dirt isn’t chametz. In this video, I break down what actually needs to be cleaned (and what absolutely doesn’t), why you’re allowed to leave the couch where it is, and how bittul chametz is your halachic safety net. Ready to prep

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Feeling Behind on Passover Prep? You’re Not Alone.

Whether it’s your first Pesach or your fifth, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by kashering, meal planning, and everyone’s unsolicited opinions. This video introduces the Pesach Without Panic guide – a 54-page workbook built for conversion candidates, beginners, and anyone craving a calmer, more grounded way to prepare. This isn’t about doing it perfectly –

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