Author name: Kochava Yocheved

Welcome! My name is Kochava, and I'm not crazy. Well, maybe I *am* crazy, but not for converting to Judaism. I'm a Southerner, writer, lawyer, teacher, parent, homeschooler, activist, nerd, and brand-new YouTuber. You name it, I'm curious about it.

Affirm Your Jewish Self—Even If You’re Still Figuring It Out

There’s a strange in-between place that so many conversion candidates find themselves in. You’re learning, showing up, trying your best – and yet, you still feel like you have to prove it. To rabbis. To community. To yourself. But Jewish life isn’t built on performance. It’s built on presence. In this simple practice, we take […]

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What Is Seasonal Jewish Living?

Judaism doesn’t just live in synagogues or sacred texts—it lives in time. Each Jewish month carries its own energy, its own invitations. Some months are light and joyful. Others, like Tammuz, ask us to be honest about what’s hard, to pause, reflect, and prepare for something deeper. This rhythm is what I call seasonal Jewish

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Jewish Conversion Doesn’t Come with a Progress Bar—So I Made One

Jewish conversion doesn’t come with a roadmap—or a progress bar.There’s no checklist that tells you how far you’ve come, no little pop-up that says “Level up! You now understand 17% more Hebrew blessings.” So it’s no wonder that so many of us reach a point—especially halfway through the year—where we feel lost. Like we should

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Meet the First Founding Members of Bayit Builders!

The doors to Bayit Builders are officially open—and the very first bricks are already in place. I’m thrilled to welcome our first nine Founding Members into this new space for seekers, converts, and anyone building a meaningful Jewish life from scratch. ✨ Welcome home to:Vanessa, Raquelle, Simone, Eleanor, Leiah, Katherine, Mariska—and our other incredible early

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