Author name: Kochava Yocheved

Welcome! My name is Kochava, and I'm not crazy. Well, maybe I *am* crazy, but not for converting to Judaism. I'm a Southerner, writer, lawyer, teacher, parent, homeschooler, activist, nerd, and brand-new YouTuber. You name it, I'm curious about it.

Reason #301 You Know You’re Crazy: You’ve Got a Crazy Minhag

I apologize if you read this yesterday, but the management had a finals-induced FAIL. I have a weird minhag that no one else around me has: I don’t place religious books where people sit. I hear this isn’t an uncommon minhag in chareidi circles. However, modern orthodox Jews generally seem to think I’m crazy with […]

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Liberal Conversion: The Gateway Drug

It seems that most orthodox converts you meet are also liberal Jewish converts. When we liberal converts begin an orthodox conversion, we all seem to think we’re crazy to be going from a liberal movement to orthodoxy. But no, you’re certainly not alone. I had the great pleasure to meet with an amazing rabbi who

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I’m ready for Hanukah, are you??

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Awkward Moments: When You’re Not Sure Who’s Shomer Negiah

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Reason #834 You Know You’re Crazy: Hebrew Jewelry

I’m really beginning to hate Hebrew language jewelry. I received a “chai” (Hebrew for “life”) necklace for Conversion 1.0, which is really nice and I enjoy it. However, my necklaces share a chain, and I inevitably forget how to put the chai charm on the chain so that it will face the correct direction. I

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Reason #92 You Know You’re Crazy: The Only People Who Don’t Think You’re Crazy Are the Mormons

Reason #92 You Know You’re Crazy: I live in a very small Jewish community. As far as I’m aware, I’m the only observant Jew on my campus. And the only people who haven’t batted an eyelash at my lifestyle changes have been my Mormon classmates! In fact, they’ve been the most curious and supportive! I

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Just wanted to share an article…

Here’s a really wonderful article by Rucheli: The Back of the Bus. For those of you who don’t know, there are some buses in Israel (and a couple in America) that segregate men and women. I knew that it had to do with tznius, but thought it had more to do with avoiding accidental touching

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Chanukah: That Time of Year When Everyone Knows Something About Judaism

Dear non-Jewish friends and family, I know that Chanukah is that time of year when you’re so proud of yourself for knowing that Chanukah is coming up. Really, I’m proud of you too! But Chanukah is like the speedbump of Jewish holidays. I don’t even take off work. And you all very much noticed that

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Convert Confessions: Why I’m Not Afraid of the Shidduch Crisis

Didn’t you know there’s a shidduch crisis going on? Young women are turning 22 without finding a suitable husband! I’m not afraid of the big bad wolf known as the shidduch crisis. For the uninitiated, what’s a shidduch crisis? Shidduch means “a good match,” and today, people say that everyone over ___ age (depends on

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Convert Confessions: I Hate Jewish Self-Deprication

“It may sound like I’m whining, but I’m just Jewish. That’s how we communicate.” Le sigh, the things I don’t want to hear at a law school lecture. Do other religious/ethnic groups buy into the stereotypes about them? You know, other than us stupid Southerners 🙂 Jews certainly buy into the Jewish stereotypes. Self-deprication is

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