Most of the time, dressing tzniusly just looks like a woman who works in an office. Unless you want to go with the seminary look. (The seminary look for fall and spring adds a hoodie, preferably from Stern.) But there is one look that just screams frum girl: when you’re obviously wearing a shell. A […]
Frum and Fabulous: The Stereotypical “Shell” Look Read Post »
I bet you’re wondering what on earth this post is about. Of course you know how to pronounce the word “Judaism”! Isn’t that a prerequisite to joining the religion?! I’m not saying there’s a correct way, but American English speakers have several very distinct ways of pronouncing the word. I’m somewhat trained as a linguist,
How to Pronounce the Word “Judaism” Read Post »
Just a short tip today. One of the most annoying things about orthodoxy is the sheer volume of candlewax that invades every part of your life. (Drip cups are always a good idea, but they can only lessen the inevitable.) I know Chanukah is getting close when I begin thinking, “Ok, it’s time to clean
Getting Ready for Chanukah: The On-Going War with Candle Wax Read Post »
A book has just been released that you should consider buying or checking out from the library. (Since it literally has just been published, you may have to request that your library get a copy of the book. It’s a simple procedure.) Disclosures: I did not receive this book to review it. However, I did
A Convenient Hatred: The History of Antisemitism Read Post »
I get very annoyed at how “modern” is thrown around like an insult. Conversion candidates seem to feel this struggle more acutely than the frum-from-birth crowd. Baalei teshuva are probably in the same boat as the conversion candidates, but at least they’re still Jewish at the end of the day. Even the people who act
Why I Am “Modern Orthodox” Read Post »
When you bentch, you may notice that sometimes a person leads the bentching and sometimes not. Chances are, you won’t be leading the benching anytime soon, but you may be confused what’s going on. I wondered about this constantly, but by the time bentching was over, I’d forgotten my question! Before we start, go grab
Word of the Day: Mezumen Read Post »
Just a subtle suggestion if you happen to find yourself worshipping the porcelain god: So if you thought you saw this before, you probably were not crazy. I actually did take this picture, at a Dunkin Donuts in Brooklyn.
Proselytizing to Drunk People? Read Post »
You may have noticed that things have changed. The blog has had its design revamped, and there’s even a new color scheme! Likewise, the “subtitle” of the blog has changed because the old one was too long for this design. I’m open to other subtitles if you have a brilliant suggestion! Now I have most of
UPDATED: Management Update: Changes Abound Read Post »
I’ve been trying to decide how to approach the Chabad question for several months. It is definitely an issue that needs to be addressed for conversion candidates because many discover Judaism through local Chabad houses. However, it is difficult to handle a controversy fairly and without making too many people angry! I am not Chabad,
Controversies You Should Understand: Chabad Conversions Read Post »
Even the other toothbrushes don’t like Shabbos Toothbrush :'(
No One Likes the Holier-Than-Thou Guy Read Post »