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You’re Not Broken: Imposter Syndrome and the Jewish Conversion Process

Imposter syndrome during the Jewish conversion process isn’t just about feeling insecure – it’s about living inside a system that constantly makes you prove yourself. You’re asked to show your sincerity, your growth, your commitment – while navigating a whole world of unspoken rules. And somehow, if you mess up? It’s on you. This video […]

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When a Rabbi Crosses the Line: What’s Not Okay During Conversion

Let’s be blunt – this shouldn’t have to be said, but here we are. If you’re in the middle of the Jewish conversion process and a rabbi asks you out (or does things that feel like dating)? That’s not okay. The power imbalance in conversion is real, and it matters. You deserve safety, clarity, and

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11 Powerful Films for Yom HaShoah – Holocaust Remembrance Day

Stories That Bear Witness Yom HaShoah – Holocaust Remembrance Day – is not just about remembering history. It’s about confronting it. Feeling it. Passing it on. There are many ways to honor this day: lighting a candle, saying a name, learning something new. One powerful option is through film. Stories can shake us awake, open

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When Gatekeeping Becomes Dangerous: Sexual Harassment in the Jewish Conversion Process

“Sexual harassment and abuse can and do happen during the Jewish conversion process – and we need to talk about it.” That’s the heart of this video. It’s not just a one-off scandal or a bad-apple rabbi. It’s a systemic vulnerability created by intense power imbalances, isolation, and a gatekeeping structure where one person’s word

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Sexual Harassment in the Jewish Conversion Process: What You Need to Know

This wasn’t easy to make. I’ve been part of the Jewish community for years now, but there are some things I still carry quietly. One of them is how vulnerable conversion candidates can be – and how rarely we talk about it. Sexual harassment and abuse do happen during the Jewish conversion process. Sometimes it’s

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The Footnote That Changed My Life

The first thing that ever felt holy to me wasn’t a ritual or a rabbi – it was a footnote.If you’ve ever felt like religion was a perfection contest you were destined to fail, this story might change that. It’s about the moment I realized Judaism didn’t need me to be flawless – just honest,

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Dirt Isn’t Chametz.

Overwhelmed by Pesach prep? You’re not alone – but let’s get one thing straight: dirt isn’t chametz. In this video, I break down what actually needs to be cleaned (and what absolutely doesn’t), why you’re allowed to leave the couch where it is, and how bittul chametz is your halachic safety net. Ready to prep

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The Pesach Mistakes I Made (So You Don’t Have To)

Let’s normalize not getting it perfect. In this short video, I share some mistakes I made during my first Passovers – the kind that left me exhausted, anxious, or just plain confused. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. And it doesn’t have to be that hard. Want the guide I wish I had back

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Feeling Behind on Passover Prep? You’re Not Alone.

Whether it’s your first Pesach or your fifth, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by kashering, meal planning, and everyone’s unsolicited opinions. This video introduces the Pesach Without Panic guide – a 54-page workbook built for conversion candidates, beginners, and anyone craving a calmer, more grounded way to prepare. This isn’t about doing it perfectly –

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It’s a Mitzvah to Be Happy – Really

Did you know that joy isn’t just a nice bonus in Jewish life – it’s actually a mitzvah? In this quick video, I talk about why happiness matters in Judaism – not just during holidays, but as a spiritual practice in everyday life. Watch below for a reminder that joy is part of the path

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