What does it mean to build a Jewish life? Not just follow one. Not just inherit one. But to shape it, piece by piece—with intention, with curiosity, and with heart. In Jewish tradition, a bayit isn’t just a house. It’s the heart of a life. A space where the sacred meets the everyday. Where big […]
🏠Jewish Wisdom Starts at Home—Literally (Defining “Bayit”) Read Post »
If you’ve been thinking about joining Bayit Builders—this is the moment. Through Sunday, July 6, you can become a Founding Member of my membership community for Jewish conversion candidates, new Jews, and spiritual seekers at the lowest price it will ever be. $15/month or $150/year for the life of your membership. After that? The doors
Sunday Is Your Last Chance to Join Bayit Builders at $15 Read Post »
When I opened the doors to Bayit Builders, I honestly wasn’t sure what would happen. Would anyone join? Would the vision resonate? Would people show up for something this new? And then… they did. Twenty-one people have already said yes to building a Jewish life rooted in rhythm, support, and intention. Not a perfect life,
21 People (So Far) Said Yes to Building a Jewish Life Together Read Post »
The doors to Bayit Builders have only been open a couple of days—and already this space is filling with people who are ready to build something real. Yesterday, we welcomed five more Founding Members into the bayit:Sarah, John, David, Kat, and Thomas—you’re in.You’re part of the foundation we’re building together. Bayit Builders is a space
Meet the Next 5: Bayit Builders Is Growing! Read Post »
You’re doing your best to learn. You’re showing up. You’re lighting candles (sometimes), reading books, Googling things you thought you should already know. But somehow… it still feels like you missed a memo. If Jewish life feels like everyone else got a guidebook and you’re just trying to build something real with duct tape and
Building Jewish Life Brick by Intentional Brick Read Post »
The doors to Bayit Builders are officially open—and the very first bricks are already in place. I’m thrilled to welcome our first nine Founding Members into this new space for seekers, converts, and anyone building a meaningful Jewish life from scratch. ✨ Welcome home to:Vanessa, Raquelle, Simone, Eleanor, Leiah, Katherine, Mariska—and our other incredible early
Meet the First Founding Members of Bayit Builders! Read Post »
When I started posting videos about Jewish conversion and the very real, very messy road of becoming Jewish, I had no idea who—if anyone—would show up. Now, somehow, there are over 1,000 of you on TikTok and over 1,000 of you on YouTube. Those numbers floor me. However you found your way here, I’m really
1,000 Strong: Building Jewish Lives, One Soul at a Time Read Post »
Let’s be real – Pesach prep can feel like too much. Between cleaning, kashering, meal planning, and trying to remember everything to do, it’s easy to spiral into overwhelm. Especially if you’re a conversion candidate, doing this without a clear roadmap can feel impossible. That’s exactly why I created Pesach Without Panic. This guide is
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It’s been just over 11 years since I completed the orthodox conversion process that created this blog. What’s changed? What’s it like “on the other side”? Last month, I saw my conversion anniversary on the calendar and made a note in my planner. …And then I completely forgot about it until a week after the
Reflections 11 Years Later Read Post »