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The Blessing for Children

There is a traditional bracha for children, separate from the blessings affiliated with circumcision, pidyon haben, a girl’s naming, and the various ceremonies being created to celebrate the birth of a daughter. The blessing is three-fold and can be worded in many ways. That the child should be blessed with… Torah Chuppah Ma’asim Tovim Torah […]

Myth: Calories Don’t Count on Shabbat

This phrase may be the most-said sentence on Shabbos behind “Shabbat shalom!” I’m sorry to tell you, but it’s not true. Calories do count on Shabbat. The problem is that you have no way to count them. If you belong to Weight Watchers or another strict weight-loss system, then you had better be eating your […]

Haikus for Jews?

All my Jew Crew on Facebook is all a-twitter about the Shema. Someone pointed out that the Shema is a haiku, and it began to spread like wildfire through status updates. After a few friends “verified” it, I decided it was finally time to investigate it for myself. The Haiku The haiku is a traditional […]

Handy Dandy List of Jewish Holidays with Hebrew Dates

A very straight-forward reference post for you today. You generally needn’t memorize the Hebrew dates of most holidays, unless told differently by your beit din. However, you should be able to list these major holidays in chronological order, starting either with Rosh Hashana or Pesach. You may want to compare and contrast with the post […]

Week Hiatus – Check Back Next Monday

I’ve decided to take a week’s vacation from the blog. I’ll be back next Monday. Please come again! Chanukah sameach!

Useful Website: Jew or Not Jew?

Even converts get very caught up in the (very “Jewish”) “Oh wait, so-and-so is Jewish? I never would have guessed!” game. We should know better that the game is pretty rude, but it’s human nature to wonder about these kinds of things. We like to put people in boxes. But there’s something to be said for […]

Can You Paint with All the Colors of Kashrut?

(Yes, that is a Pocahontas reference.) One of the most, dare I say it, “childish” things in orthodoxy is the obsessive/OCD color-coding of kitchen items. Don’t get me wrong. It’s incredibly useful, especially when you’re learning or when you’re a guest. But sometimes my kitchen is so full of primary colors that it reminds me […]

The “Nicknames” of Brachot

You will eventually need to know the short-hand names for the eating-related brachot, so here is a handy list to help you out! Even better, you’ll hear these phrases thrown around quickly in conversations, so now you’ll understand what these people are talking about, and you can even use these phrases in your conversations! What […]

Tonight Is the First Night of Chanukah!

Remember to light your candle tonight. Place your candle on the far right side of the menorah (from your perspective, facing it). Recite the blessings after you have lit the shamash (helper) candle but before you light the Hanukkah candle. If you’re a visual learner, check out this video from the learning site Jewish Pathways. […]

Phrase of the Day: Hashkama Minyan

At maariv on Shabbat (Friday night), you’ll often hear an announcement of the times for the “hashkamah minyan” and “shacharis.” But what would come before shachrit, the morning service?? It’s a trick question. They’re both minyanim for shacharis. Hashkama is just the “early” minyan, usually around 6 or 7am. There are several reasons why someone […]